ten feet away

I suppose that no one but Love could want me in all of my naked, weak, brokenness….

That’s what I was thinking while laying alone in the hotel bed. Actually it was, no one will ever want to marry this naked, weak, brokenness that is me, but then that was quickly quashed by the realization that it was my ego talking. That knowledge made nothing better. I just cried harder. I felt so vulnerable laying there, naked and crying, holding my stuffed bear to my belly…at the age of 38, still trying to hide it and hold it in….hiding and holding. I think people who know me would say that I’m an emotional person. That I have no problem expressing myself. If they only knew. If they only knew that what they witness is just the tip of what stays here in my core and leaves me curled up on the bed, holding bear and hiding. If they only knew the naked, weak, brokenness of me.
Love knows.

Laying there knowing that the Queen has me tight in her grasp and feeling my anger boil up and out, again, towards Love…I came here to write. I knew that he would be back with my breakfast soon. I knew that I could not be found in full blown hysterics. I know that I cannot share this fear and knowledge, this bad day, with him. I cannot. Things will go wrong. Mistakenly, misunderstood, misinterpreted and mis-everything elsedly, wrong. I hold it in. I hold in what hurts because it will hurt him. I think on some deep level, the one that is crying as I write that, that holding in what hurts to keep others from hurting, is what love was to me. So much so, that some part of me still thinks it is. But it is not. I know that. Yet,

He sits just ten feet away. He is on his iPhone. He is eating leftover chinese. He cannot see me here, crying. He cannot sense that I am holding anything in. He is not looking up. He has no idea that right now, I am sitting here, crying and writing this. He is ten feet away. No one travels this journey at the same pace. Where are we going? If all there is, is now, where in the hell am I going?
Now. Eckhart Tolle would ask, what is the problem right now?
Pause. I don’t want to think my way out of this. I don’t want to continue down that road where I feel better. I can feel it calling me and I am not ready to go there yet. Earlier as I was getting the laptop out and lecturing myself about being all that I need, and that nothing “out there” is going to give me what I already have “in here”, and while I was saying that Love does indeed love me and that I need to stop grasping and clinging and live in the now…just as I was trying to convince myself of what I know to be true, I received a text that said,
“Just so you know, I love you.”
It was Love’s way of saying, you’re right. I do love you. You and your neurotic, bad day having, weak, naked, brokeness. I love it all and maybe ten feet away isn’t noticing you, but I- Love, I never take my eyes off of you. You get what you give. You give here and I will give there. The text was from my friend Barb…somehow the Universe and the planets aligned just at that time, at my broken time, and gave me love. Love knew what I needed and when I needed it most. I am humbled by my lack of faith. I wish that I had more of it.  I wish that Love didn’t have to prove itself to me all of the time, and or, that it didn’t wait until I was at the cliff’s edge, sometimes already falling, before it did.

Ten feet is such a long way to fall when you forget to spread your wings.

 

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  1. #1 by Running from Hell with El on July 28, 2013 - 8:10 am

    Um wow. Your writing, your mind, you–so beautiful. Love you.

    • #2 by foundedna on July 28, 2013 - 7:59 pm

      Thank you my friend. I love you too!

  2. #3 by Dixie on July 29, 2013 - 10:43 am

    I do so enjoy reading your writing as it feels like it comes straight from your heart. I too struggle with Love and what it all means to me. It is very confusing but I am learning to love myself first. It has taken me almost 52 years to realize that I am no good to anyone if I don’t love myself first. Sometimes though I do not love me, at least not enough of me but I’m learning to.
    Love…
    It is just another word,
    a four letter word….

    Thank you for sharing your words.

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